Oftentimes, I’m asked, “What do we need to do for the first meeting?” While there is nothing you must do in order to fully participate in that first meeting, you may want to do a few things to prepare.
While the following questions presume that you have children, you can consider them even if you are divorcing without minor children.
Here are some questions to ask yourself:
- In a perfect world, how will the children’s time be allotted between myself and my soon-to-be ex-spouse? Are these notions reasonable when taking into consideration work schedules, school schedules, activities, etc.?
- Do I want to stay in the marital house? If so, why? What are the benefits? What are the potential challenges? Is this “best” for the children?
- If I don’t stay in the house, where will I go? What are the advantages and disadvantages to a new residence? Are the children relocating with me?
Bear in mind that your initial answers to these will like change and/or take a more defined shape as the mediation progresses. Nevertheless, the themes and realities will be consistent throughout the process. The sooner you begin to grapple with these questions, the more streamlined, i.e., the less costly and time consuming, your mediation can be.
If you think you might be interested in a mediated divorce, please call Jenna Brownson, Esq. at 978.760.0482.